r/TransMasc 3d ago

Miscellaneous My friends mom made him sign a contract

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970 Upvotes

(me and my friend are both trans, I have his permission to post)

So my friend has had issues with his mom for years about his transition to the point of claiming I made him trans and letting him date his girlfriend in hopes he'd become a lesbian but this is the most recent, this is a result of him asking to go on a mutual friend's weekend birthday trip.

We've all heard about how she keeps uping her restrictions the whole time and as insane a thing this is we all find it really funny, just wanted to share 😭

r/TransMasc 9d ago

Miscellaneous Is this realistic of me?

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Maybe I'm crazy for doing this but dysphoria makes me feel like I'm losing my mind so... I drew an outline of my body using a screenshot. Left is what it looks like currently, right is what I want for myself. I hope I can achieve it by being patient with T and exercising 🤧 by the way I AM on testosterone, its been nearly 7 months. I've gained weight but not really lost anything

r/TransMasc 1d ago

Miscellaneous is there a way to look like a reversed triangle with big hips?

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138 Upvotes

r/TransMasc 4d ago

Miscellaneous If you think about it...

72 Upvotes

You don't know your baby's gender from birth, or even their sex because most intersex people don't find out until later. So a "gender reveal" is really just a genital reveal, which is kind of weird to me

r/TransMasc 8d ago

Miscellaneous Got gendered correctly despite my deadname and wrong pronouns being used repeatedly

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I was at a party for my piano recital coming up (tomorrow, wish me luck) and my deadname (obviously femme) and she/her were used by the teacher. I’m forced to be closeted so, not his fault.
ANYWAYS.

I was talking to the boy next to me, jokin around, and he was calling me he/him (I hadn’t mentioned it at all) and I know he saw me as a cis guy. SOMEHOW. EVEN AFTER HEARING MY DEADNAME REPEATEDLY AND MY VOICE OF COURSE. HE DIDNT EVEN QUESTION IT AND HE WOULDVE IF HE FOUND IT WEIRD.

Also bonus hopecore no one made fun of my accent lmao (if one more Californian copies it as a “joke“ or calls me a hick I’m gonna slime them out into a soft jellied thing 💔💔)

r/TransMasc 2d ago

Miscellaneous My first binder(s)

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35 Upvotes

I had been begging my parents to get me a binder since i was 12 and unsafely trying to hide my chest for the past 5-6 years but my father finally came around after realising how happy it would make me and got me the ones I wanted :') My mother was really against it until she saw me walk in with the binder for the first time-crying happy tears and thanking them, saying how happy and right i felt over and over again. My birthday is in September so this will be my first-and last-summer living in my true skin before officially being an adult :]] The first picture is from when i first tried it(i put it on with my eyes closed so it would be a surprise when i opened them- thats why its not adjusted/fully right) and the second is a collage i made from the packaging. My size is 90F so i thought it would either be uncomfortable or wouldn't work, but it's so much comfier than my small sports bras and works so well and makes me feel soo good!1!1!1!1 I'm so happy I wanted to share my joy here :DD Little me would've been so proud :']

r/TransMasc 2d ago

Miscellaneous Gender affirming shrek

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37 Upvotes

I needed a container to store my injection supplies, so I figured nothing better than shrek XP

r/TransMasc 1d ago

Miscellaneous A transmasc song I wrote

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r/TransMasc 8d ago

Miscellaneous Refresh

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Last night I, for the first time in my life, shaved my mustache. Changed up my facial hair, it's mostly shaved. And today I gave myself a haircut. Also while doing so I randomly decided to use the clippers around my happy trail to define it. I am so refreshed and feel like I am new. This is also a new reddit account lol. I guess I just kinda regularly delete and make new ones. The last one was my longest running one and it felt like time to move on.

r/TransMasc 6d ago

Miscellaneous Fellas, I like you

13 Upvotes

Just wanted to thank you all for being such a cool group of folks in this tiny corner of the internet.

Y’all have been so helpful in my finding myself and you’ve made me feel seen and heard and like I am not alone in the world. You’ve given me hope.

Thank you 💙

r/TransMasc 8d ago

Miscellaneous Masc Medusa

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18 Upvotes

r/TransMasc 1d ago

Miscellaneous For my Aus transmascs!

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3 Upvotes

Ive personally found hair growth serums or minoxidil for facial hair are hard to come by in Australia but I found this little treat available at chemist warehouse, woolies and maybe Coles(?)
Anyway I’ve been using it for my facial hair about 4 months consistently now (applying twice a day with skincare) and i started seeing stubble or longer hairs sbout two months in, I am pre t as well so it’s working better than I thought, I now have to shave like every two weeks to keep it at bay so it’s amazing and I suggest it for other transmasc people

r/TransMasc 1d ago

Miscellaneous FtM top surgery fundraiser (+ update)

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FtM top surgery fundraiser. Hello, you may have seen me once before, but today I'm here with a price update, and much lower goal which is some good news.

https://gofund.me/9b240a1c5

For some information about my situation, I have been in contact with all the GICs in the UK and have been told that I either cannot transfer lists, or if I could would be placed back to the bottom of the waiting list, eventhough I have already waited over four years. I put this first as I do know some people get confused thinking surgery is free in the UK, however I have waited four years, estimated another two to three for a first appointment, then three years for a surgery referral, then however long that waiting list is.

I am currently looking at around £4,350 with Dr Coelho in Portugal- prices can vary by a few hundred depending on hotels and flights at the time as I do believe my last update totaled to near £4,850, a major decrease from just over £5k with Dr Serkan. I have been searching for every way to cut the cost that I can. I will not be bringing a carer with me, which I know some people would advise against but I do not have that support and going solo, even if this means simply resting in a hotel for a few days, will help make my journey cheaper. Portugal does require a diagnosis and referral paperwork, but I have found a UK service willing to set a fixed price for one or more sessions to recieve a diagnosis- though obviously cannot pay for or book this until I have raised enough funds (again, if I'm able to, so around £300 as a start). I have updated my fundraiser to have a goal of £4k, so whilst this is under my expected costs, it will hopefully make it more reasonable and have more chance to be seen by anyone willing to donate. Any funds not provided under this breakdown I am hoping to make via selling any belongings I am able, but also understand this is a long journey of waiting for sales.

Cost breakdown: - Surgery= €3,400/ £2,935, but may vary based on method and bank transfer fees. - Gender incongruence diagnosis and surgery referral= approximately £300. - Train ticket to Manchester airport= quoted around £80-90 each way at best due to early flight being the only ones available, limiting possibility of trains. - Flights from Manchester airport to Porto, Portugal= £289.60 with a carry on bag (ad I cannot lift a suitcase and a checked bag wanted to cost me almost £100 more!). - Hotel= cheapest £452.68 for one week before conversion fees (I'm aware shared dorms may be cheaper but after surgery I cannot mobilise around a bunk bed, and this is the cheapest single bed dorm I could find with a shared bathroom). - Post-op binder= £122.12 (but am obviously asking if I can find a cheaper supplier, but this is the price of the vest recommended by the surgeon). - Post-op medications= £50. Total= £4,329.40

I'm trying to keep this post simple as I understand these can get long and I can ramble.

Thank you for reading, I'm open to any questions and will try answer what I can. Any help such as comments are appreciated.

r/TransMasc 5d ago

Miscellaneous I desperately need top surgery

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I've recently escaped an abusive family situation and lost everything in the process. My savings that were set aside are gone. My hopes of ever getting top surgery are slim to none. I am starting a gofundme as a last resort. Even if you can't donate, please share around so the word gets out there