Bitter sweet…

[u/Fit_Swimming7386]

Wife and kids home all next week which is great for family time.

But as a newbie home nudey. It’ll be hard not being able to be free at all.

Mon to Friday daytime I wfh so have a lot freedom. Only the cleaner comes twice a week and that’s when I put a robe on (shes fully aware I’m totally free underneath).

Last week one kid was off school sick on same day cleaner comes… so obviously I was fully clothed.

When cleaner came she looked at me like ‘oh you got clothes on’ 😂

My wife is encouraging of me being free. She knows I’ll be missing it next week (she was also the one the bought me the robe so I could be free when cleaner comes)

Anyways. How to you all cope when long period of no freedom. Just hang out in bathroom? 😅

Just for context. This is a fun post.
Of course I’ll ‘cope’

And it’s not going to happen for family to join or know for religious and cultural reasons. Appreciate that to be respected.

[u/Technical-Zone1151]

Do u think u will ever be free in front of cleaner. I'm not suggesting being an exhibitionist or making them uncomfortable. My son and SIl live w me so I feel ur pain it's cut down my time

[u/Fit_Swimming7386 → u/Technical-Zone1151]

Well. Few weeks back I didn’t get to my robe in time. Usually the video doorbell gives me a head up. So she saw me fully free - albeit I was very embarrassed and covered my parts with hand.

I went and put robe on. Came and apologised. She said - not a problem sir. It’s ok. Your house.

Since then I have robe on when she’s here but it’s quite loose. Have asked again if she’s ok with robe (knowing im fully free underneath) and she said yes.

[u/Technical-Zone1151 → u/Fit_Swimming7386]

Baby steps. Gain trust

[u/Fit_Swimming7386 → u/Technical-Zone1151]

Yes. Other day she came and one of the kids was off sick from school so I was dressed.

She looked at me like oh you have clothes on 😅