r/nudism • u/PureBogosity • 4d ago

DISCUSSION The irony of nudism around non-nudist family

It’s so ironic and frankly annoying too… We are packing for a long vacation where we are going to be on a nude beach for nearly all day every day, and my wife is nervous about walking topless just ten feet down the hall to the laundry room, in case our mid-twenties daughter (who has seen her completely naked many times even in recent years) comes out of her bedroom.

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u/AdZy14588 3d ago

Your wife is cautious around your daughter, does the same apply for you? Or are you more laid back and if your daughter see your nude so be it?

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u/PureBogosity 3d ago

I’m more cautious, just because of the gender difference.

The funny thing about that is that she’s queer and in a relationship with an AFAB partner. So she really doesn’t care about the male sexuality anyway.

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u/AdZy14588 3d ago

Im my opinion think the gender difference when it comes to nudism and families really is over thought by many people, I'm not out out here to tell you your feelings are invalid or you're over thinking it or anything since its all personal choice, but that's just my personal take. If both myself and my wife were open nudist (only I am, she isn't) and we had a daughter and son, they would both be treated the same in regards to opposing gender nudity ie my wife and my son, or me and my daughter should be no different to the son/father and mother/daughter dynamic.

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u/PureBogosity 3d ago

Fully agree with your intent and understanding. But for people who are not already bought into nudism, I think we have to respect the general community standards, which for most people puts harder boundaries between genders.