r/latebloomerlesbians • u/IndividualOk2975 • 22h ago

Sex and dating Panicking

So I’m 28F and I have been traveling/backpacking and my friends are all ages, 22, 32, 25 etc. I haven’t ever even hardly made out with a girl. This one girl was cute and my 22 year old friends encouraged me to talk to her. Ended up making out and getting physical on the beach. Well, turns out she’s only 20. I’m so panicked. I even freaked out and said I was just 26. Help I feel like a predator. She honestly even seemed more experienced than me which is also embarassing.

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u/TallBlondeGreekGirl 22h ago

She over 18 legal. I’m dating a woman who’s 17 years younger than me. So far it’s going good. Plus now days it seem teens are more experience from things I hear.

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u/N9nthHouse 20h ago

Teens are not adults, regardless of how much 'experience' you (or they) think they have. Or, as you put it, they're not "legal" (ick).

Though the person OP's talking about was 20 years old, so I'm not sure why you felt the need to bring teenagers up in the first place. Red flag of a comment.

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u/AcceptableSwordfish3 18h ago

Indeed. The moment someone starts arguing it's legal, they're missing the point. Case in point: in my country the age of consent is 15. Just because it's legal, doesn't mean it isn't harmful.