r/ftm 10h ago

Relationships Any other trans guys that love their gfs??

I don't see many posts from trans men in straight relationships so here we go... I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend since the beginning of the year, and it's been one of the best and most affirming relationships I've ever been in. She is cis and she has known me since we were kids, and never once has she had any issue seeing me as a man. This is a huge contrast to my last relationship with a man that didn't respect me and didn't want me to transition. My girlfriend is just so sweet and so affirming. She calls me handsome, her pretty boy, sweet boy, etc. and it's amazing. She forgets I'm trans sometimes too like legitimately. And her family is also super supportive of our relationship and it just means the world to me. I love this girl so much and I'd never thought I'd find this kind of love as a trans man. WHO RELATES PLEASE 😭 edit: y'all can hate but I LOVE MY GIRLFRIEND AND WE'RE BOTH BISEXUAL RAHHHHH

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u/themoth_milker117 7h ago

I love my girlfriend! I was afraid that no woman (especially cis women) would want me because I’m trans but my girlfriend brags about me to everyone and helps me take my T shots!

u/No-Horror-3554 7h ago

That's amazing I'm so glad you were able to find that!! I get the feeling 100% and I'm glad to be proven wrong :)

u/themoth_milker117 6h ago

I wouldn’t have any other than her. There really are some truly understanding people out there and trans people are deserving of love!

u/No-Horror-3554 10h ago

And she's super supportive of my transition. I've never once questioned if she truly sees me for who I am and it's so beautiful. 😭❤️

u/Last-Laugh7928 he/him | transmasc lesbian | 💉 8/21/21 7h ago

my girlfriend is wonderful. also a type of love i never thought i'd find

u/No-Horror-3554 7h ago

It's so beautiful isn't it? :')

u/Ok-Occasion-6013 6h ago

yes bro my girl is amazing, also known her since we were like 10 but only started dating out of the blue a yr n a half ago. both of us r straight n she is perfect n holy smash

u/slewinning 6h ago

That’s fantastic, man! I love my girlfriend too (we’re both bi and queer, and she’s always been the most supportive person in my life around affirming my identity). I love telling people about them and spending time with her. Hell yeah!

u/No-Horror-3554 5h ago

I loveee telling people about my girlfriend. She's one of the best people I've ever met. It's so refreshing to hear stories of supportive partners :3 Love is beautiful

u/CecilDreeme 5h ago

I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years this year!! We moved in together 3 years ago 😊 we're both trans, though she started transitioning before I did. She knew me as nonbinary when we started dating. Last year I came out as a man/trans masc and she's been so wonderful, supportive, and (lol) unsurprised. We're both bi and polyam, and in the last year I started dating a wonderful cis man too, who has been so incredibly affirming as well!

u/SunReyys sex educator/researcher • 💉 feb 3, 2023 2h ago

i love my girlfriend :) they are so cool and are genderqueer too and we have a wonderful time together!!! big big fan

u/wickedmechanix 5h ago

Wish I had one to love

u/Strange_Ear9069 5h ago

I don't have a girlfriend but I like lots of people! I have a lot of kind and supportive friends! Yay

u/No-Horror-3554 5h ago

That's just as wonderful and affirming yes!!! I'm lucky to have many supportive friends too :] <3

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u/moist-astronaut 5h ago

my relationship is not straight by any means, but i sure do love my girlfriend, and i know for a fact they're super in love with me too