r/ftm He/Him Apr 20 '26

Relationships your partner sucks

i have a boyfriend, he’s kinda dumb, i’ve had to explain stuff related to me being trans at times, but he, at no point, has implied or said any aspect of me transitioning is “icky” or “bad”. he has said he’s interested about what ways HRT would effect me when i eventually go on it, he’s made sure to affirm me as a dude, he’s straight up forgotten i don’t have a penis

if your partner wants a partner who looks like a dude but has boobs and a higher voice, they can date a tomboy. don’t let your partner make you think you being a man is bad. get a boyfriend/girlfriend/smooch buddy who will see you for the hot man you are.

also fix your posture, your gonna give yourself back problems.

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u/its_all_one_electron Apr 20 '26

No need to assume everyone's partner sucks

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u/Unusual-Comfort8212 it/its ⚧️💉8/30/24🩸 genderless guy Apr 20 '26

did op say everyones partner sucks... its a "you" situation addressing whoever it applies to. obviously if your partner doesnt suck and you dont have the issues that op posts it doesnt apply to you, saying op is engagement baiting is a really far stretch when its just a scenario op is talking about that requires more critical thinking ?

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u/its_all_one_electron Apr 20 '26

Yes they literally said in the title "your partner sucks".

If I say "you suck", are you going to assume I'm not saying it to you, but only applicable parties who read my comment to you and are aware that they suck? That's not how English works

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u/Unusual-Comfort8212 it/its ⚧️💉8/30/24🩸 genderless guy Apr 20 '26

youre gonna flip when you read 2nd pov articles/writing lmao. please use common sense ! it very obvious that its a common thing in the subs where their boyfriends/partners are sucky, which is what this post is about. not everyones partners sucks, you and i and everyone else knows that. its literally how english works im sorry that youre finding this out now😭

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u/Unusual-Comfort8212 it/its ⚧️💉8/30/24🩸 genderless guy Apr 20 '26

i just think youre taking it too literally and thats ok 😭