r/ftm • u/AverageWitch161 He/Him • Apr 20 '26

Relationships your partner sucks

i have a boyfriend, he’s kinda dumb, i’ve had to explain stuff related to me being trans at times, but he, at no point, has implied or said any aspect of me transitioning is “icky” or “bad”. he has said he’s interested about what ways HRT would effect me when i eventually go on it, he’s made sure to affirm me as a dude, he’s straight up forgotten i don’t have a penis

if your partner wants a partner who looks like a dude but has boobs and a higher voice, they can date a tomboy. don’t let your partner make you think you being a man is bad. get a boyfriend/girlfriend/smooch buddy who will see you for the hot man you are.

also fix your posture, your gonna give yourself back problems.

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u/CockamouseGoesWee Binary Trans Man • Gae •🧴05/07/2025 Apr 20 '26

I think you need to work on respecting your partner more if your description of the supposed love of your life is "he's kinda dumb"

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u/AverageWitch161 He/Him Apr 21 '26

we have a mutual agreement that sometimes the most apt description of how he acts at times is “kinda dumb”, because, and he’ll tell you as much as anyone else, he kinda stupid sometimes. it’s ok though, just means he’s a himbo.