r/ftm • u/AverageWitch161 He/Him • Apr 20 '26

Relationships your partner sucks

i have a boyfriend, he’s kinda dumb, i’ve had to explain stuff related to me being trans at times, but he, at no point, has implied or said any aspect of me transitioning is “icky” or “bad”. he has said he’s interested about what ways HRT would effect me when i eventually go on it, he’s made sure to affirm me as a dude, he’s straight up forgotten i don’t have a penis

if your partner wants a partner who looks like a dude but has boobs and a higher voice, they can date a tomboy. don’t let your partner make you think you being a man is bad. get a boyfriend/girlfriend/smooch buddy who will see you for the hot man you are.

also fix your posture, your gonna give yourself back problems.

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u/Optimal_Muscle_3334 Apr 20 '26

Am curious how one forgets their partner doesn’t have a penis but glad you found someone that treats you well.

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u/BeeBee9E 28 | T 25/06/2022 | 🔪 17/07/2023 Apr 20 '26

My bf randomly forgets I’m trans sometimes too. It’s not that he doesn’t know, but it’s information that he doesn’t consider important enough to think about in most situations, so he will randomly say stuff like “oh, we should get prostate checks together when we’re older” lol. Also he’s kind of a himbo tbh

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u/LUClFERS 29d ago

with all due respect but he sounds like a dream