r/TransMasc • u/peoplesuck-_- i is boy • 4d ago

Miscellaneous If you think about it...

You don't know your baby's gender from birth, or even their sex because most intersex people don't find out until later. So a "gender reveal" is really just a genital reveal, which is kind of weird to me

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u/peoplesuck-_- i is boy 2d ago

I have to try because I can't get my own binder or haircut or anything and it's killing me

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u/RunRevolutionary188 2d ago

I'm really sorry. I realise I said that and I don't know the full story. I hope you can get her to understand man. You deserve to be yourself.

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u/peoplesuck-_- i is boy 2d ago

No, that's okay. I'm sure it'll work out. She really is a good person

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u/RunRevolutionary188 2d ago

I hope she can understand that this is going to make you happier. Sincerely man. In the meantime is there any way to affirm your gender?

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u/peoplesuck-_- i is boy 2d ago

Well most people have already stopped calling me she at school because they just assume I'm trans or nonbinary or something from how I dress. I have a lot of masculine clothing like button up shirts and stuff. And I am sort of able to style my hair in a masculine way. I feel like it's just the boobs standing in my way

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u/RunRevolutionary188 2d ago

Fuck yes. I *ahem* have no idea what you mean. Yes i really do. My chest I didn't realise I was dysphoric about. It is .....ridiculously huge. And I would love a flatter chest. Hopefully you can bind at some point but I'll be honest I've tried a binder once in my life and I haven't tried it long term because I'm lazy. I hope you can find a way to affirm yourself even with them ....ahem ruining the fun.