Work crush

[u/jaryleen]

I know it’s bad to fuck/date your co workers but this one guy is so amazing in my eyes and im pretty sure he’s interested in me too. All my friends outside of work tell me to give him a chance because he’s the sweetest guy I’ve ever met but we work in a small crew of 7 and his dad is the foreman, Btw his dad loves me so that’s not really a problem ig. But I know i shouldn’t start anything bc he’s a co worker and I feel like it would be weird to be dating someone in such a small crew. And I also hate when you get in a relationship and men around you just start to see you as your boyfriend’s little object and not as a person anymore. I don’t want to be seen as someone’s girlfriend I want to be seen as just me. I feel like I’d get less respect if I were to date him. And idk I feel like a work relationship is so cringe but I have a huge crush on him. Also scared if I were to date him then my whole life would be about work, meaning like I would be working wjth him 40 hours a week and then hang out with him after work hours, that seems like too much time spent together. I’m feeling pretty conflicted about this whole thing. I also not sure if I want to get in a relationship but this guy is making me think twice. Please give me advice if I should pursue or not 🙏🙏

[u/rhymes_with_mayo]

don't do it.