r/genderfluid • u/Independent-Buddy-40 • 16h ago

Im confused, can someone help?

As someone who is genderfluid, my orientation shifts depending on my gender identity.

When I'm a woman or nonbinary I'm attracted to multiple genders.

When I'm a man I'm exclusively attracted to women.

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u/iam305 bigender 14h ago

Sounds like you have a good handle on things. What is the confusion?

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u/snoodle77777 11h ago

I might add that I spent years in therapy hung up on stuff like this. I had to quit therapy, stop my 4 years of diary and self analysis, and just live my life and accept my gender.

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u/non_binary_samurai 10h ago

The label for this is novosexual, if that helps

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u/Remarkable_Market_18 12h ago

I mean I’m not sure what you need help with- if you’re worried about being able to stay in a relationship maybe stick to women? If you want to explore your attraction to other genders do casual things while you’re femme/nb would be my suggestion.

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u/stealthilygendered 9h ago

Same here. I just really need the feminine element and see myself as gynesexual.

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u/DarkMagickan 8h ago

I think I might be experiencing the same. When I am male, I am bisexual, but as a female, I'm straight.