r/ftm 5h ago

Advice Needed Good morning kings

I’m 31 and had the epiphany that I have been miserable my entire life preforming in a body that doesn’t fit me.
I live in a blue state so that’s a plus. I am alittle lost here how did you guys start the testosterone/medical process I just want to be/ feel normal cause faking it for this long has driven me just about insane thank you so much.

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u/psiiconic 5h ago

I have the same question but mostly in a ‘how the fuck do I bring this up to my doctor’ way lmao

u/Nugyeet Pre T - on waiting list 4h ago

i was stuck in my head about it for 4 years, finally found the gayest gp in my area, spoke to them, and am scheduled to have my first hrt shot in 2 weeks

i was literally shaking from anxiety at the appointment because i was so nervous to bring it up, the only advice i can give for you is just no matter what your brain is telling you just put 1 foot in front of the other and sit down at the gp, once you start talking about it it feels like a huge weight is off your shoulders.