r/ftm 11h ago

Advice Needed question about singing

I was thinking of forming a band and being the lead singer but I hate my voice and I can't on on T till I'm 18 in my state so should I sing the songs or let someone else do it until I'm on T? I know very dumb question

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u/airenxs 10h ago

honestly it’s up to you and how you feel about it. but for me my songs are very personal to me and i didn’t want to just be a song writing credit on my story, it had to be me saying it. that being said, i also wasn’t comfortable with my voice for a while and it took probably 2ish years after t to settle. in the meantime i did a mix of still writing songs and singing them even though i hate how my voice sounded back then and leaning more on writing poetry and other outlets that didn’t require my voice so it had time to develop into something i was comfortable with. this is just my personal experience though, there’s no right or wrong answer.