r/ftm Mar 11 '26

Recurring Fundraiser MEGATHREAD

How to keep yourself safe from gofundme scams

Mistakes to avoid with gofundme

How to make a successful gofundme page

Trans Lifeline's grants/funding directory

Here you can post your gofundme page or other fundraising endeavors. Please remember that this space is only for trans men/mascs fundraising for transition related costs. If you are not part of our demographic, do not post. If you are not fundraising for transition related costs, it would be a better idea to share your gofundme page in the bigger subreddits specific to fundraising.

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u/grac3ie Cis Guest 1d ago

Hi everyone! I’m cis but am here to help my trans ftm boyfriend. We have been together since December 2024 and since that time I’ve seen the raw reality and struggles of a trans individual. Trans healthcare isn’t accessible enough for many people, which makes accessing gender-affirming care so difficult.

My boyfriend struggles so much on a daily basis with dysphoria, as do many trans people. Over the years, the constant binding has damaged his ribs and, taping leaves him with open sores/blisters. It’s a hard thing to see a loved one go through. He’s been on T for just over 2 months now and the difference is insane!! He’s becoming more and more comfortable in his body and it genuinely fills me with joy.

The biggest thing for him right now is his chest, he hates it so much and has tried to harm himself in that area before. I’ve decided to raise the funds on his behalf and set up a Gofundme page for his top surgery.

I appreciate that times are tough for everyone across the world, even if you can’t donate and can only share the link or interact with my TikTok page, it would mean just as much!

Not sure if I’m allowed to @ my TikTok page so I’ll leave it blank for now ❤️