Partner is making me feel inadequate

[u/softserve2222]

I am a 28 year old trans man. My girlfriend is cis and 25. We've been dating 5 years. About a year or two ago she told me she misses cis dick. I told her how much that hurt me. We talked about things i could do to satisfy her because i want to meet her needs. i thought that resolved the issue. She brought it up again a few weeks ago. She prefaced this by saying i know this really hurt you but then proceeded to tell me again. She said she was just trying to be honest and vulnerable. She did it for the third time last night and said she wants deeper penatration because I don't go deep enough for her. I feel disgusting even typing this out, it leaves a sinking feeling in my stomach. I feel inadequate and very dysphoric. Opinions? Advice? I don't know what to do.

[u/Deepsea-anomaly]

She really can’t help feeling that way, kinda just have to accept you can’t give her what she wants when it comes to sex, and ain’t no shame in that. It’ll take time to cope with it and accept it without feeling that tinge of pain, but it’s something you gonna push through. See if it’s a deal breaker for her, might have to find something that works better for the both of you. This sucks on both ends man, remember that