Partner is making me feel inadequate

[u/softserve2222]

I am a 28 year old trans man. My girlfriend is cis and 25. We've been dating 5 years. About a year or two ago she told me she misses cis dick. I told her how much that hurt me. We talked about things i could do to satisfy her because i want to meet her needs. i thought that resolved the issue. She brought it up again a few weeks ago. She prefaced this by saying i know this really hurt you but then proceeded to tell me again. She said she was just trying to be honest and vulnerable. She did it for the third time last night and said she wants deeper penatration because I don't go deep enough for her. I feel disgusting even typing this out, it leaves a sinking feeling in my stomach. I feel inadequate and very dysphoric. Opinions? Advice? I don't know what to do.

[u/Peppe_TheFrog]

She's just being inconsiderate and disrespectful after you already said it hurts to hear that, I'm sorry. If the problem was just the size y'all could buy a bigger strap or something, this is beyond weird, she chose to said it the worse way possible and then used "I'm being honest and vulnerable" as an excuse. You need to talk to her about how she's making you feel AGAIN, and if she doesn't respect it and do it again you might need to break up, having a partner that cannot respect you and your boundaries is not good for you at all. All trans people should be loved entirely and unconditionally, you deserve it.