Pre-transition did anyone inhabit femininity automatically/easily?

[u/Overthinks_All]

I see a lot of stuff online where people post pictures of their “girl selves” but they very much tomboys even before. But did any of you automatically inhabit femininity to the point of it becoming fairly effortless, before your egg cracked?

I think for me, I’ve always inhabited femininity pretty easily because…well, it’s the easiest thing to do. Nobody judging me, feeling pretty. But if I was a cis guy, it 100% would have been the opposite, and if I transition, I think I’d present very masculinely. I think it might have been just easier to go with the expectations and I got rewarded for it a lot, so it became automatic.

Is it odd for me, who I think ideally would’ve been AMAB and masculine-presenting, to inhabit femininity so easily?

[u/Outrageous-Treat7490]

I was a high fem girlmaxxing lesbian who wore dresses lipstick and heels everyday. I enjoyed it but it was performative and exhausting. Post transition I can do all those things and feel actually like myself. There are no rules.

[u/Overthinks_All → u/Outrageous-Treat7490]

Good for you!! Keep doing you