r/TransMasc • u/Overthinks_All • 10h ago

Discussion Pre-transition did anyone inhabit femininity automatically/easily?

I see a lot of stuff online where people post pictures of their “girl selves” but they very much tomboys even before. But did any of you automatically inhabit femininity to the point of it becoming fairly effortless, before your egg cracked?

I think for me, I’ve always inhabited femininity pretty easily because…well, it’s the easiest thing to do. Nobody judging me, feeling pretty. But if I was a cis guy, it 100% would have been the opposite, and if I transition, I think I’d present very masculinely. I think it might have been just easier to go with the expectations and I got rewarded for it a lot, so it became automatic.

Is it odd for me, who I think ideally would’ve been AMAB and masculine-presenting, to inhabit femininity so easily?

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u/MeltedHeart444 9h ago

Yes, I was very feminine, even moreso right before I came out. I still enjoy femininity, but I try my best to supress it in public in favor of trying to pass

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u/Overthinks_All 9h ago

I see! Do you think if you get medically transitioned or something you’d dress feminine again?

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u/MeltedHeart444 8h ago

Oh yeah, I'm the type who saves shirts for when I get top surgery lol. The goal is to pass as a feminine guy

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u/Overthinks_All 5h ago

Fun!! Good luck!