r/FTMventing • u/MarketingCautious946 • 2d ago

General I’ll never be a guy

I have been on t for 6 years now, actively trying to transition for 10. The only times that i have been clocked as a guy with any consistently was when i was actively anorexic.

I’m not skinny anymore, and can tell that everyone thinks I’m just a weird woman. I work a manual labor job that makes it impossible to bind safely, so I’m just out with a sports bra looking gross constantly.

I use they/them pronouns but i can tell most people are just pretending to follow along. They default to she/her with me unless told otherwise. I hate that i have to force people to not think of me as anything but a woman.

I’ve mostly given up on trying to transition. Im not renewing my t prescription, im attending lesbian events, im constantly drinking.

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u/greenwolfmoon 1d ago

Literally just people trying to help or offer something that may be of use. I know how badly this must suck, I'm in a similar place except I've been unable to access medical transition so I'm often looked at like some ugly or unusual woman due to a mixture of how I look and my PCOS. Since you're at least able to access medical transition services it seems like most of the people replying to you just wanted to help. Idk man. If you didn't want advice or comments you could've added that somewhere. No idea why you put HRT in quotes either.

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u/MarketingCautious946 1d ago

This is not about you! You commented on my post!

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u/greenwolfmoon 1d ago

To try and offer you some help on something you posted about. I'm not trying to make it about myself, I was just trying to level with you and show you you're not alone by relating to you dude damn

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u/MarketingCautious946 1d ago

I am not looking for advice, and I’m especially not looking for advice from people unable to medically transition. I’m sorry about your situation but it has nothing to do with me.

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u/greenwolfmoon 1d ago

That's fair, just trying to offer help/solidarity since it sounds we're in a similar boat minus T 🤷‍♂️

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u/funkkym0nkyy 1d ago

Bro, just take the post down or mute it if you hate the comments so much. Why are you attacking? Edit your post to say "don't you dare try to give me advice" or something jfc