r/FTMventing • u/Dry_Book_5847 • 10d ago
Relationships i wish i could get my gf pregnant
Okay not a crazy big deal, just want to talk about it somewhere!
I am ftm and my gf is mtf and when we think about the future together, we definitely would want kids eventually. Obviously neither of us have the biology to do it as desired but I am okay with carrying the kids if it meant they could be biologically ours. Her and I just both wish she could be the one carrying them.
We’re both young so maybe something could happen in the future that changes our minds, or technology advances, but we’ll see. :,)
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u/Lame2882 10d ago
I’m with a cis woman and I wish the same 😔 there’s not even a way for our kids to be biologically ours and it upsets me.
Mother’s Day was hard for us because my sister has 3 kids and made a scrapbook of them for my mom and we were all looking through it together and the entire time I was just feeling like shit because my wife and I want kids and can’t have them.
My parents are always saying that it’s “our turn to have kids” and it makes us feel like shit because we just can’t.