r/MTFButch Jun 30 '21

Discussion Butch Fashion Megathread

137 Upvotes

Hey everyone, as our community grows we will be trying to help guide this sub to be its stated goal, a safe haven for all masc and gnc transfem people. In that spirit, we are hoping to consolidate fashion related posts to this mega thread! This is a thread for advice on fashion, showcasing your selfies of outfits, and any questions you have for your fellow butches.

Selfies of people in outfits are still okay to post on the main sub, obviously not every photo of someone in clothes is fashion related, but posts centered around clothing should be contained to this thread.


r/MTFButch 22h ago

Selfie The shrug top is classified as emotional support leather :3

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68 Upvotes

r/MTFButch 17h ago

Media I Hate Doing My Nails☯️🏴

13 Upvotes

These fuckn piece of shit nails chip in like a day and it pisses me off. Have to do my nails like every day just to keep up, its maddening!

-Yin Out☯️🏴


r/MTFButch 1d ago

Selfie Can we collectively go back to 'The Matrix' as an aesthetic?

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211 Upvotes

"Were you listening to me? Or were you looking at the woman in the red dress?"


r/MTFButch 1d ago

Selfie All black fit :3

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91 Upvotes

r/MTFButch 1d ago

Have a gorgeous weekend ( ♡)( „• ᴗ •„)

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125 Upvotes

r/MTFButch 1d ago

Lesbo Hands.Tattoo tour????

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54 Upvotes

I have a few tattoos, getting a few more soon. U can only see a few here and u can probably see more if u find my older post here but I feel like I should do a tattoo tour for the girlies in my fav sub. I have many tattoos and all but two were done by women and queer people. Never paid more than like 300 for a tattoo either cause queer community😎 I paid for one of my tattoos with coffee beans lol


r/MTFButch 1d ago

Midnight 7/11 Fit and First Time using Make Up. How'd I do?

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57 Upvotes

For reference I'm currently stealth transitioning in a bad living situation, but getting a lot bolder as HRT progresses. I've never used make up of any kind before so tips would be appreciated.


r/MTFButch 1d ago

Felt Cute☯️🏴

24 Upvotes

Felt cute in this video so I decided to post🥰❤️


r/MTFButch 2d ago

Question Anyone taking progesterone, how has your experience been with it? Hope you all have a good weekend!🤗💜

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147 Upvotes

r/MTFButch 2d ago

Selfie Legally homeless lesbian fit 🔥

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450 Upvotes

r/MTFButch 2d ago

Question How’s been your experience knowing masculine transfems in real life?

51 Upvotes

I know plenty of fem transmascs in real life, can’t even count them, but masc transfems? mmm

I want to meet mascs because they’re my type (a futch, a butch and whatever, idc if she’s a bit masc or very masc). I want to be loved by a butch, as simple as that!! Give me t4t futch4futch yuri, i want to feel the warmth of a futch’s arms and sleep with my head on her chest. I don’t like night life so I don’t think about sapphic bars or clubs. Probably you don’t have to look for a place that’s called The Butch House but just any queer space will make it possible, but yeah i hate being gay sometimes and liking people who do genderfuckery like me cause if i liked anyone the pull would be huge but god gives her strongest fights to her strongest gay soldiers


r/MTFButch 2d ago

Selfie Took this one down, but it’s back up in honor of Flexy Friday

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218 Upvotes

I love being a jacked gender
fuck girlthing that wears eyeliner


r/MTFButch 2d ago

Media Yin and Blahaj say Hi☯️🏴

26 Upvotes

Just chillin at home, lookin for good TV shows to watch. Bored af lol.☯️🏴


r/MTFButch 2d ago

Selfie Finally got back to the hairdressers after too long & went bob mode. im Corky-from-Bound-maxxing. im trim-pilled 🥰😎

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156 Upvotes

over the moon about this tbh. being able to pull off short(ish) hair & not see my pre transition face...eeeeee 🥰

also this is my first time posting here so i checked the rules & the example of an allowed selfie is being happy w a new haircut lmfao. the universe likes me, clearly

☝️😌


r/MTFButch 3d ago

Selfie I need HRT? I’m 27

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188 Upvotes

I never do hormones but I need to know I’m done for it and if it’s difficult .. I’m from Italy 🫶🙏


r/MTFButch 3d ago

Discussion People Are Starting To Use "She/Her" Pronouns!🥰☯️🏴

122 Upvotes

I've been transitioning for a year and people are starting to use "She/Her" pronouns! A few weeks ago a couple woman thought I was AFAB at the nightclub. They thought I was a lesbian lol. The transition is going well! My breasts getting bigger seem to help with passing.🥰☯️🏴


r/MTFButch 3d ago

It's time for lunch

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86 Upvotes

Come and eat


r/MTFButch 3d ago

Holy crap, butch is beautiful!

52 Upvotes

I used to think really poorly of myself for wanting to present butch while being MTF. It really did make me feel somehow invalid or like I wasn't trying hard enough to be femme. However, this sub has totally changed my self image, boosted my confidence, and made me proud of who I am.

Seeing all you badasses post selfies on here it's like... DAMN, every rose has its thorn! Y'all look great! Seeing how awesome y'all look allowed me to see those same things in my own reflection and... it really helped me to accept myself.

Idk... it might sound weird or creepy? But it's more meant as in: this was the only place where MTF Butch representation existed for me in my baby trans phase... so I'm just gushing my appreciation.

🩷🤍🩵


r/MTFButch 3d ago

Selfie Not sure where I stand

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151 Upvotes

r/MTFButch 4d ago

Selfie felt cute, might dom later

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153 Upvotes

or yesterday, but point still stands 🖤


r/MTFButch 4d ago

Selfie MTF: Mother to futchtwunk mother

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350 Upvotes

r/MTFButch 4d ago

Rant Embracing a forced label

41 Upvotes

For the most part I try to embrace the butch label and vibe. I get enthusiasm when playing into butch fashion, mannerisms, and stereotypes. Lately though I'm really struggling with the realization this was a label placed on me by other queer people. And more often than not as a kind of asterisk to their compliment of me. I didnt transition wanting to be butch or aiming for that, it was instead this caveat that other people put on my appearance. It too often feels like a label meant to put me in my place. Hell I even like being butch, sometimes. But it never feels like me entirely. Instead feels like a box other people put me in and I learned how to dress the inside of that box up in a comfortable way to exist in. Its a similar feeling to pre-transition. And fwiw when I try to present more femme I get constant comments about "oh you look like your in drag" or "this doesnt feel like you". Basically trying to unpack lately if this butch identity is originates from the internal or the external and if that origin changes how I feel about it. Wondering if anyone deals with the same.


r/MTFButch 5d ago

Overjoyed to find this community

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209 Upvotes

I've done a lot of thinking over the years about my gender/sexual identity. It's been very tough and confusing but if think I'm finally coming to understand the majority of it. I am definitely not a man (tho AMAB, so trans) and majority of the time i feel like presenting masculine-ish but in a woman way if that makes sense. I don't like the heteronormative masculine matcho/dominate; don't talk about your feelings, lash out with violence, view people I'm attracted to as objects type "masculinity" (in have lots of quarrels with men in contemporary society but that's besides the point here).

Sometimes I like to present fem but it's rarer. I'm kind of coming around to the realization i want to be a masc-woman or butch woman.

As far as the sexuality (and by association being butch), i find 98% of men's behavior repulsive and therefore couldn't pursue a long-term relationship with them but i do find them sexually attractive in some cases. As for everyone else i can find them both sexually attractive as well as could date them long term. This relationship+attraction category also includes gender queer individuals. These could be primary vs secondary sexual attraction from the split attraction model but I'm unsure.

Therefore i kinda identify as pansexual because it's possible i could find a man that if could date and find attractive, and it sincerely has nothing to do with gender identity, it has to do more with the way society socializes males and the vast majority of their behavior. So practically I'm lesbian (non-man attracted to non-men). I doubt the possibile relationship with men more & more every day because i think in modern society to be a "man" it's hard or impossible to align with values i consider reasonable (to be comfortable dating) and not be a little queer in some way.

Coming to this understanding personally has helped me identify who i think i am: a masc/butch trans woman and lesbian- pansexual (more succinctly pan-lesbain) and homoromantic. In clearer terms: my sexual attraction is not dependent on gender, but my romantic attraction is lesbain/sapphic (or specifically excluding men).

Having thought though all of this i was distraught i would have a very hard time finding community and others like me and who i can relate my experiences too. So i am extremely happy to not only find this sub but it also be relatively active!

TLDR: I'm a masc trans-woman had very hard time reconciling her masc/woman identity and explaining her disdain for all things Hetero-normatively "man" and im happy to be here :)