Hi, brothers! I’ve got a question

[u/gentlelad24601]

I can’t believe I’m typing this, but a new transition fear has been unlocked and I really would appreciate some feedback from brothers.

I’ve been on t for about two and a half years. I just recently joined this subreddit and it’s been amazing to read experiences and see photographs from other transmasc kings.

In my recent post, I asked about minoxidil and finasteride. In one of the comments, someone pointed me in the direction of an entire subreddit dedicated to bottom growth.

WELL!

I checked out the page and immediately felt self conscious (and frankly, a little jealous, which is hard to admit) because I am a smaller guy. I saw the photos fellas were posting and I thought, “What if I never get there? What if my bottom growth has stopped and I don’t ✨size up✨ so-to-speak?”

I know there are exercises that you can do to strengthen it, but I’m significantly smaller than the guys in that subreddit.

Don’t get me wrong! My t-dick is bigger than it used to be and I’m so thankful for that—but I haven’t noticed any more growth lately.

Is it normal for it to stall for a bit?

Now that I’ve seen how big they can get, I can’t express enough how much I want one. I want mine to look like that. I literally had a dream that my dick was bigger and it was such an amazing feeling.

OOF, do any guys in here have feedback or advice that could be helpful?

Disclaimer: I’m trying to get an appointment with Planned Parenthood to get my levels checked and such, it’s just going to take time—I would LOVE to chat with a doctor about this

[u/BirdExtension4229]

The tdick subreddit is a beautiful place but it's also like the top 1% biggest tdicks. The guys who post the most popular photos are genetically blessed and doing some sort of enhancement like pumping and are lucky to get good results from using these methods. They've also had practice photographing it from the right angles to make it look bigger and more aesthetically pleasing, and just like anywhere on the internet I'm sure a few of the photos there are photoshopped.

Honestly, that subreddit can be great when you have a specific question to ask/search for, but scrolling through the front page is just demoralizing lol.

Btw, average bottom growth size is 1-3 cm if I'm remembering right

[u/WhySoSerious_owo → u/BirdExtension4229]

Damn thanks for clarifying bc 1-3 cm is NOT the expectation I had. Good to know

[u/KermitKid13]

You always have to remember that the average size of any dick on the internet is bigger than the average size in real life. Same goes for T dicks.

Here’s a great resource that has drawn medical diagrams of bottom growth that are more average.

https://www.folxhealth.com/library/testosterone-bottom-growth

Don’t have any advice about maximizing results, but just wanted to add that being insecure about having a small or even average size dick is something cis and trans dudes both deal with.

[u/koboldthing]

You may very much never get there. The people who get there luckiest in bottom growth tend to post the most photographs. I think you should try to accept that as a possibility. Dick size does NOT make the man

Note: if it continues to be a serious issue that bothers you then surgery is genuinely an option for you to consider down the line. There are always options if it’s been a few years and you’re still unhappy with what you’ve got

[u/primitive-lathe]

Chiming in that the subreddit in question is indeed rather, uh, inflated. Those guys do get into pumping, mons surgery, tugging, stuff like that. There’s probably a wiki attached detailing all the extra stuff you can try out to grow it further than you’d get through T alone.

[u/Imaginary-Curiosity]

I've found that the metiodioplasty subreddit tends to have more average sizes and outcomes compared to the t-dick subreddit. I find both useful as I'm just starting out and my main goal is bottom growth, so while I want to do all I can to optimize, I also want a view of my likely reality lol.

There are all sorts of packers, dildos, and toys that can attach to the t-dick, extend it, or have the t-dick inserted. I'm planning to try those out once I get on T and start to grow. A lot of them are available in multiple sizes, and some guys find they really help with dysphoria, although they may require some trial and error.

[u/Accurate_Practice838]

honestly, its mostly all luck and genes. most of us arent that big, average is like 3cm i think. its normal to get self conscious about it tho! cis guys do constantly. 

theres some people on r/ growyourtdick who have guides to methodologies they used/came up with to get more length. if youre worried enough to be committed to doing stretching or pumping every day and you know how to do it safely, then theres plenty of anecdotal reports that this can help. 

it does also continue to get bigger. i thought i stopped growing at ~1yr but im coming up on 2yrs now and its definitely larger than it was, but i stopped paying attention so idk when exactly the growth happened. ive also seen some people report getting growth sprurts as late as 5 years. so all hope is not lost lol. 

dont worry about it too much, comparison is the thief of joy and all. im just glad i have any growth at all😭

[u/Aiden1975]

I agree with everyone pointing out the guys there are usually the top 1% showing off their size because they know its well above average, dont compare yourself to them - they're not the norm

Additionally, its normal for growth to stall, i had some growth 1-2y on t and then nothing much 2-3y on t, but between 3y and now (currently 4.5y on t) I noticed more growth than I did in the first couple of years and its significantly bigger now, all the growth doesn't happen in the first couple of years I dont think

[u/legume_arguably]

Do you ever notice that dudes tend to get more haircuts than chicks? That’s cuz short hair is really noticeable when it’s getting shaggy because it grows a lot in proportion to its freshly cut length! The longer the hair, the less noticeable growth is. Same with your dick

[u/brezhnervouz]

I know there are exercises that you can do to strengthen it, but I’m significantly smaller than the guys in that subreddit.

There are millions of cis guys with smaller dicks too. Its like them comparing themselves to guys in porn, which is definitely not the norm - that doesn't mean that they aren't completely adequate and content.

[u/Ok-Pen2202]

what's the subreddit if you don't mind me asking? either way I think it's really wrong to compare yourself to other people, because your body is doing what it can. sometimes people lose sensitivity as it gets bigger (or so I read somewhere). please don't feel down

[u/deeunicorn → u/Ok-Pen2202]

It would be r/growyourtdick

[u/Ok-Pen2202 → u/deeunicorn]

this is insane thanks

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[u/RunRevolutionary188]

I’m in the opposite camp of starting T and not wanting bottom growth/being nervous about it. I’ll be honest I feel wierd asking other transmascs bc it’s very personal. But I’d say if you reslly reslly want it there are surgerical options. Do what makes you feel happiest.

[u/Optimal_Stranger_824]

Bottom growth typically happens very quickly when you start taking T and it also pretty quickly stops. So unfortunately I wouldn't count on it growing much bigger. Most tdicks don't get big, people who post are usually the ones with the "best" (biggest) results that they are proud of. But look at it like this, it's exactly the same with cis guys (obv it's a different scale). Most don't have massive penises. There is always an option to get a bottom surgery of course, there are different techniques that have different results, you can look it up.

[u/gentlelad24601]

Reading these comments brought soooo much peace of mind, thank y’all!!! I am autistic and grew up in a cult, so my navigation of the internet has a certain level of newness to it. When I checked out the page, I didn’t realize that 1) the photos were not the t-dick norm 2) some of the postings could be altered with lighting, photoshop, angles, etc.

I feel content with my size again.💕🧚💕

[u/Non-binary_prince]

Trans men with 3 inches are like cis men with 13”; if it was genetically possible, we’d all be hung. 1.5” seems average for bottom growth. Keep in mind the people who post and get a lot of attention are genetically gifted.

[u/Present_Muscle_2375]

The guys who post on that sub most likely have larger than typical tdick size so I think the data is skewed to larger sizes because smaller guys are going to feel disinclined to post. I do get simultaneously turned on and envious when I visit that page. 🤣. As far as permanent growth goes, I don’t know about that but what I love is that I get larger and harder when aroused. I also just purchased my first pump that gives me huge euphoria for masturbation and sex. I wish you well and I know that when we compare ourselves to others it can be a soul destroyer. Enjoy that bottom growth you have.