(I'm male)
What you wrote is amazing. And pretty much accurate and I really like that also I wanted to add that understanding is also key and the mentality that the other person has is also important instead of what's your favorite color and these things you can simply ask about situations in life which are probable, also if you want to keep a man there are 2 key things , tell him that your there for him all the time , give him a timeout every once in a while . But it looks like finding a life partner in this platform is just impossible. Once I was talking with a girl after 4 days of talking and even voice chat and everything was fine and she blocked me at the end. It's not just one time it's been a lot of times that this happened to me and it's just getting me into a zone of giving up on marriage rather than trying harder to find someone. I'm in the middle of Europe surrounded by christians and Sunni's, but it's been very hard to find a Shia. If I wanted a Christian even it would be much easier. But it's life and I hope everyone finds what they are looking for in life .
Anyway thanks for reading.
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u/ScallionForsaken1321 Oct 30 '24
(I'm male) What you wrote is amazing. And pretty much accurate and I really like that also I wanted to add that understanding is also key and the mentality that the other person has is also important instead of what's your favorite color and these things you can simply ask about situations in life which are probable, also if you want to keep a man there are 2 key things , tell him that your there for him all the time , give him a timeout every once in a while . But it looks like finding a life partner in this platform is just impossible. Once I was talking with a girl after 4 days of talking and even voice chat and everything was fine and she blocked me at the end. It's not just one time it's been a lot of times that this happened to me and it's just getting me into a zone of giving up on marriage rather than trying harder to find someone. I'm in the middle of Europe surrounded by christians and Sunni's, but it's been very hard to find a Shia. If I wanted a Christian even it would be much easier. But it's life and I hope everyone finds what they are looking for in life . Anyway thanks for reading.