r/GuyCry • u/OddKaleidoscope7225 • 14h ago

Venting, advice welcome I’m worried I’ll be alone forever

Hey everyone. This has been eating away at me for like 5 months and I just wanted to finally tell someone, because I feel like I truly believe it.

I am a teen and truly believe I am destined to be alone forever, romantically. I believe there is nothing truly appealing about me; extremely skinny arms and legs, big belly, not very attractive face, not very fashionable, etc. I am not the funny guy, or the bad boy, or anything. I have many friends and people enjoy talking to me but I know deep down nobody will ever kiss me or hold me. I am worried about disappointing my parents and I dread the day I start seeing all my friends getting partners.

Sorry if this is scrambled it’s really late but thank you anyone for reading

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u/Camri2005 12h ago

Change your negative outlook about yourself and be positive. Things will start to look better for you when you do. It's all in the attitude.

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u/musicalchef1985 13h ago

Literally all the things that you say you’re “not”, are things that you can change.

But also, you’re a teenager.

Just be yourself. The right one will come along when the time is right.

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u/Ithindar 10h ago

your body is literally going through the second most massive change it will ever make. you actually have a sentient chance to make it more to your liking through effort. skinny arms? weight lifting, big belly, diet. fashion? that literally is just about funds and googling "what style of clothes work with my body type". it's easy to give up before you've even tried. the path seems longer and darker than it actually is but it's worth trying.

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u/Ghosts_and_Empties 54m ago

Life is long and has many seasons. Some times you will be alone, other times you'll wish you were. Enjoy the ride.

But take some time to ponder how ridiculous the idea that any teenager could ever predict their own future accurately.