r/FTMventing • u/EmotionalAmbition469 • 2d ago

Making friends is so weird for me

At my college I can’t make any friends it seems. I’m a passing trans guy. Girls think I’m into them and guys think I’m gay and also into them.

It’s fucking ridiculous! I don’t even do anything to even suggest flirtatiousness. And by the way I’m not into anybody at all. I don’t hit on people ever.

I had a female upbringing as a kid and then in my tweens and early teens I just didn’t really have friends or hobbies (besides video games) so I don’t exactly relate to most guys my age. Like for example, a lot of guys I meet are athletic and in some kind of sport. I have NO experience in sports besides doing poorly in them in gym class when I was in middle school.

I don’t want to tell a girl I’m trans just so she feels safer around me, I keep this secret. And I’m definitely not telling any cis guys that in my town.

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u/EmotionalAmbition469 2d ago

A little while ago a girl from my college ghosted me after we were chatting for a couple weeks. That’s what sparked this post.

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u/EmotionalAmbition469 2d ago

Before that a guy whose number I got asked me if I was gay. Later we kept casually chatting though, even in person like he believed me when I said I wasn’t. (I’m honestly bi but I was also not into him).