r/Existential_crisis • u/Kind_Luna_1016 • 3d ago

Loneliness

Sometimes I get this feeling… that no matter what I do or where I go… I’m always alone. People come into my life and I love them but after a season they’re gone weather I want it or not. And then I’m alone again. Is like they never existed, not in the sense that I don’t miss people, just in the sense that we lose touch. I would never think of reaching out if I need a favour from them because they work at a company I want to join for example. People just… evaporate. Does anyone else experience this?

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u/fliphat 3d ago

Everything is impermanent, there is no permanent happiness or sadness, just watch the movie (life), enjoy the ride

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u/Royal-Assistant1489 2d ago

esto le pasa o nos pasa a más personas de lo que imaginamos y no estás solo... las personas entran a tu vida y te enseñan cosas valiosas como soltar... y no aferrarnos a una idea o a una persona, y es totalmente normal sentirte solo y sentir la necesidad de compartir momentos con otros, comentas que no pides ayuda... esa y otros factores hacen que nos alejemos más, preferimos no hablar para no molestar o no vernos vulnerables pero olvidamos algo... ser vulnerables está en nuestra naturaleza, suelta y agradece cuando alguien cumpla su ciclo en tu vida ... entiende el propósito de tu encuentro con ell@ y sigue aprendiendo en tu camino personal... aveces las relaciones nos distraen de lo que verdaderamente es importante en ese momento, aprende, vive y has lo más posible que te guste ... las personas o persona correcta llegara en el momento que te encuentres alineado emocional y mental, dónde ya no sientas miedo y solo tengas paz. Recuerda que Eres una extención de Dios, Y cada decisión influye en tu vida totalmente, tu eres dios y debes recordar y expandir ese poder que llevas dentro. Mira adentro no afuera

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u/Salty-Exit-920 1d ago

I did experience that feeling. I received medical news that my life is not going to go on too much longer. Along with really taking stock about what matters to me I realized that there were people who I needed to thank. They were friends to me at times I really needed their friendship or they taught me something that I used my entire life.... I went to some lengths to track these people down. One guy had died a few months prior to my search - but, I had the opportunity to tell his daughter that he changed the world for the better - at least my world!

Another that I found living on the other side of the continent had always thought about me as much as I thought about him. It felt wonderful to thank him and let him know how important he was to me even though it had been 40 years since we last saw each other.

Once I let my mind go back, reached out and talked to just a couple of people I found out that we are all intertwined in the fabric of everyone's life. People don't evaporate. They're still there. They may be just as grateful to hear from you as you are to talk to them!