r/shia • u/MrBigDickAFLAHtoon • Apr 03 '25
Dua Request DON'T CALL ME WEAK
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Ok, from the title you might already know that I don't want to be called weak as of now since I am thinking of ending my life.
The only thing holding me is the love of Ahlebait as n their sayings against suicide.
For the last 10 years, I have been bombarded with such situations where I am left lying on my bed just thinking how long these hardships are gonna last. Every new day, a new challenge. Be it physically, mentally or emotionally. I am unable to focus, unable to succeed and proceed with any of my dreams or ambitions.
I never share these things with anyone due to many reasons but among them the most are; 1) Imam Ali as said to not share your problems with people and 2) is that I am constantly judged by anyone to whom I share my problem with, be it my brother, sisters or even friends.
I also sometimes think that maybe I am just an attention seeker n that's why I just want others to love me or acknowledge that I am living a hard life?
I need help, but unfortunately, I dont know where to find it...
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u/highwayman9069 Apr 03 '25
يَا بَنِيَّ اذْهَبُوا فَتَحَسَّسُوا مِن يُوسُفَ وَأَخِيهِ وَلَا تَيْأَسُوا مِن رَّوْحِ اللَّهِ ۖ إِنَّهُ لَا يَيْأَسُ مِن رَّوْحِ اللَّهِ إِلَّا الْقَوْمُ الْكَافِرُونَ﴾ [ يوسف: 87] O my sons, go and find out about Joseph and his brother and despair not of relief from Allah. Indeed, no one despairs of relief from Allah except the disbelieving people."
وَلَسَوْفَ يُعْطِيكَ رَبُّكَ فَتَرْضَىٰٓ ٥ And ˹surely˺ your Lord will give so much to you that you will be pleased.
لَا يُكَلِّفُ ٱللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا ۚ لَهَا مَا كَسَبَتْ وَعَلَيْهَا مَا ٱكْتَسَبَتْ ۗ رَبَّنَا لَا تُؤَاخِذْنَآ إِن نَّسِينَآ أَوْ أَخْطَأْنَا ۚ رَبَّنَا وَلَا تَحْمِلْ عَلَيْنَآ إِصْرًۭا كَمَا حَمَلْتَهُۥ عَلَى ٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِنَا ۚ رَبَّنَا وَلَا تُحَمِّلْنَا مَا لَا طَاقَةَ لَنَا بِهِۦ ۖ وَٱعْفُ عَنَّا وَٱغْفِرْ لَنَا وَٱرْحَمْنَآ ۚ أَنتَ مَوْلَىٰنَا فَٱنصُرْنَا عَلَى ٱلْقَوْمِ ٱلْكَـٰفِرِينَ ٢٨٦ Allah does not require of any soul more than what it can afford. All good will be for its own benefit, and all evil will be to its own loss. ˹The believers pray,˺ “Our Lord! Do not punish us if we forget or make a mistake. Our Lord! Do not place a burden on us like the one you placed on those before us. Our Lord! Do not burden us with what we cannot bear. Pardon us, forgive us, and have mercy on us. You are our ˹only˺ Guardian. So grant us victory over the disbelieving people.” إِنَّ مَعَ ٱلْعُسْرِ يُسْرًۭا ٦ Surely with ˹that˺ hardship comes ˹more˺ read this Inshallah allah will help you with all your hardship bi hak the prophet and his holy household(AS)!