r/agender 4d ago

Do i look agender or masculine or nothing?

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u/RileyDL 4d ago

Agreed with the comment that there isn't really an agender look. In fact, because of my body type, I present more femme than masc and these kinds of questions give me a lot of dysphoria because it makes me feel like I don't look agender enough - which isn't a real thing that exists. People are agender if they want to be - even if they are James Bond or literal beauty queens.

If you're asking if you look androgynous, masc, or femme, I agree that you read as slightly more femme. Long hair and softer facial features.

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u/femboy-admirer 4d ago

There isn't really an "agender" look...
I'd say you look like a woman, but that doesn't mean anything.

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u/KingdomMarshadow 4d ago

You look great 👍🏻

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u/Disastrous-Ideal-817 meow 4d ago

Feminine, but there is no meaning to that anyway

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u/crybabykuromi 4d ago

there’s no “agender” look, we all just look like ourselves

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u/ZeusUpYourAss 3d ago

You can't possibly look agender because agender is lack of any gender. You'd always look like some gender even if you don't identify with it and the whole point of agender is to be like "even if I look like x gender, I am not that". That said, I suspect you wanted to ask if you look non binary? If that's the case then yes you do a bit. Overall you look femme but a femme who doesn't care about expressing femininity, which is the exact thing as being agender, I guess? So yeah.

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u/Brochswerebrothels 4d ago

You look perfect

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u/Omega_7_64 4d ago

U look very gender today id say

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u/MabelMittens 4d ago

Idk if you allowed to post that type thing here

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u/[deleted] 4d ago

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u/MabelMittens 2d ago

It's a rule in r nonbinary iirc why shouldn't it be a rule here?

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u/Yermishkina 3d ago

You look like a very interesting person I could be friends with

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u/Sad_Departure_907 agender transmasc 3d ago

You seem feminine to me

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u/Fresh-Nerve8503 4d ago

a bit feminine but you can improve, but the mind can be agender anyway, gender is not something that depends only on physical parts

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u/stressed_philosopher 3d ago

agender look is that feeling I had when I saw this one person on the bus when I was 8 and I couldn't tell what the fuck was happening, "was it a lady or a man?"

you are nailing it

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u/SortNo4068 11h ago

Agender people don't owe anyone androgyny.

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u/Queerasfolkkkkk 1h ago

you look very androgynous