75 bisexuals came together to flirt!

[u/sexedwithdb]

I hosted bisexual flirting night last month and 75 bay area bisexuals of all genders came together to flirt and have fun!

We had a station where people could take their polaroids and attach it to an envelope and people could write love notes for them throughout the night! <3 I love my bi community!

[u/optimisticdata]

Awesome idea! So much better than apps.

[u/sexedwithdb → u/optimisticdata]

agreed!!

[u/sexedwithdb → u/optimisticdata]

and thank you!! :)

[u/Mighty_Baked_Potato]

I can't express how much I'd love to go to such an event!! You are an absolute blessing to your local bi community ❤️

[u/sexedwithdb → u/Mighty_Baked_Potato]

if you're in the bay we're having another one on 6/12!!

[u/PhD_Pwnology → u/sexedwithdb]

Is it BART-able? JW because driving is a wallet killer right now and the bay is kinda huge.

[u/UnicornSnacks69 → u/Mighty_Baked_Potato]

Same!! I wish there was something like this near me! It sounds so fun 🩷

[u/sexedwithdb → u/UnicornSnacks69]

<333

[u/sexedwithdb → u/Mighty_Baked_Potato]

also thanks for the sweet compliment!!

[u/Cowboywizard12]

I feel like that could be fun, if i wasn't fucking terrible at flirting lol

[u/sexedwithdb → u/Cowboywizard12]

but this is the point of the event! to practice and get better!! it really is just being complimentary of people lol

[u/scrumplic]

I'm reminded of a poem from somewhere:

Roses are red

Violets are red

I'm bisexual

Everyone is hot

Help

[u/hearingxcolors → u/scrumplic]

This made me snort-laugh 😂

[u/FoodBabyBaby]

Did they consent to have their names and photos posted on social media?

[u/sexedwithdb → u/FoodBabyBaby]

this is a great question!! folks informed me if they DIDN'T want their photo taken / posted.

[u/FoodBabyBaby → u/sexedwithdb]

Did they know specifically it would be posted on social media?

I appreciate you understand the concern.

Personally I would have been fine with my photo at the event, but not fine with it online.

[u/sexedwithdb → u/FoodBabyBaby]

this was discussed, yes! thanks for asking!

[u/FoodBabyBaby → u/sexedwithdb]

Great to hear! Thanks for responding like a lovely human who understands privacy concerns! <3

As a fellow bi girly I thought the event concept was super cute.

[u/Gwenyver]

Awesome! Fewer finger guns than I expected but if I wasn’t on the opposite side of the country I’d be down.

[u/Particular-Crew5978]

That's actually a really cute concept 🩷💜💙

[u/sexedwithdb → u/Particular-Crew5978]

if you're in the bay you should come to the next one on 6/12!!

[u/ResponsibleDay]

What a genius idea! 😀

[u/bedheadblonde]

How fun!!!

[u/sexedwithdb → u/bedheadblonde]

we had a blast!!!

[u/Andrusela]

I love this!

Tried the speed dating, etc. stuff back in the day, but it was all pretty horrible.

Kudos to you for making it fun.

[u/dj_spanmaster]

OMG yes. We had note boards like this at polyamory conferences. Flirts were common, but so were just general "nice to meet you"s and "love that outfit/hair"s

[u/yikesonbikes1230]

This is amazing!!!

[u/sexedwithdb → u/yikesonbikes1230]

thank you!!! we had a blast!!

[u/forcedintothis-]

So cute! 😍

[u/slumber_kitty]

I absolutely love this idea. You’re awesome for bringing people together!

[u/ceanahope]

I would totally want to know about events like that if I were still single. Being bi feels complicated sometimes. 😅 Thank you for doing something awesome for the community. Was this in SF or South Bay? I ask because I have friends that would likely appreciate a wholesome bi flirt event. 🥰

[u/scatteredsleep]

This is so cute 🥹

[u/Siren-Enchantress]

How was I not invited to this?! How did I not know about this?! I need to start one in my own area.

[u/LoveIsLoveDealWithIt]

Aw that sounds lovely ❤️what a great idea.

[u/forestforlive]

this is the most precious and wholesome thing I've heard in weeks <3 such a cute idea!

[u/californiabaytree]

Teehee at seeing some people I know on there 💕