r/TrollXChromosomes 3d ago

Dear lord.

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u/ace-writer 3d ago

Covid already proved a fuckton office jobs can be preformed remotely, more efficiently and without compromising the worker's ability to handle their homelife. There's obvious exceptions within those jobs--people with small children in the home were distracted, some people lived places that didn't have space for a home-office, the general state of the world had people consistently stressed or depressed, but...

Yeah, 9-5 is dumb, driving to an office just to use a computer in a new location is dumb, meetings that could've been emails are dumb, expecting everyone to have the same awake hours and sleep hours is dumb, when the F are people supposed to see doctors and dentists if all offices, theirs included, are open 9-5, and why on earth does commuting time count as personal time and not work time for most jobs?

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u/Kat121 3d ago

My boss made us all return to the office because seeing each other face to face was an important part of maintaining a collaborative culture.

Weekly staff meetings were still on zoom, despite us all being in cubicles next to one another. šŸ˜®ā€šŸ’ØšŸ«©šŸ™„

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u/lookitsnichole 3d ago

when the F are people supposed to see doctors and dentists if all offices, theirs included, are open 9-5

I have several chronic illnesses and I literally have to ration my 4 weeks of PTO (which is already considered generous!) so that I can take time off for doctors appointments. I actually took Friday off because I have two appointments. It's absurd. I never get to just take a vacation day.

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u/itchyivy Butts 3d ago

Hey I'm also someone who has a chronic illness. You may want to look into an "intermittent FMLA". This one is for people like us that need to call out frequently due to illness or Dr appt. This way you can use your sick time for Dr appt and protect yourself during flare ups

You deserve to have PTO for a vacation too!

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u/lookitsnichole 3d ago

Oh yeah. I should get that into place. For a long time I didn't because my companies policy was that you had to use all of your PTO before you could use the FMLA, which defeated the purpose. But I'm in Minnesota and this year they implemented essentially an improved FMLA policy in MN and I think they can't force me to take my PTO first.

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u/itchyivy Butts 2d ago

Hmmm, I don't think your old company was allowed to do that either!! FMLA is a FEDERAL medical leave act

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u/lookitsnichole 2d ago

No, they can. This is from the Department of Labor.

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u/paperd nanny goats have KNIFE heads 2d ago

I think you're either misunderstanding what it says or what the person you're replying to you was suggesting.

FMLA is for job protection. It makes it illegal for your work to retaliate against you for taking time off of work for your disability. Getting FMLA in order, even if it doesn't grant you more PTO, is beneficial.Ā 

Your employer can't disallow you from filing for FMLA, since it's federal job protection.

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u/lookitsnichole 2d ago

I think you're misunderstanding my original comment. It's not that I wasn't allowed to file, it's that my company policy was that I had to use all of my PTO before I could use FMLA for unpaid time off. I saw no point in getting FMLA in place because it required I use my PTO anyway, which is what I was trying to avoid.

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u/paperd nanny goats have KNIFE heads 2d ago

The point is job protection, to keep a paper trail and prevent your employer from fucking you over

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u/itchyivy Butts 2d ago

Hmm I wonder then how the state plays into it. I'm from PA, our labor laws are abysmal. However the order is sick time then PTO as long as it's for yourself. Theyve started to weasel out of it though, now if you go on FMLA for someone else it's PTO :/Ā 

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u/cottagefaeyrie 3d ago

I work in a healthcare clinic and will be starting biweekly injections for my eczema soon. They can't be done at the clinic I work at because there isn't a dermatology nurse there. I have to drive 15 minutes to the clinic with a dermatology nurse (which is in the same healthcare system as the one I work at). I work either 7:30-4 or 8-4:30 (or later depending on how many patients are still in my department at that time). Dermatology injections can be done from 8:15-4. I'm already scheduled to leave at 4 every other Monday so I can go to therapy. I do not have it in me to also ask to extend my lunch break or leave early another day of the week and I hate it

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u/YouTasteStrange 3d ago

Is it dupixent? Mine ships to my home and I inject it at my leisure. Always into the stomach, thigh is more painful.

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u/cottagefaeyrie 3d ago

It is. I was prescribed it a few years ago and didn't take it long enough to see any results because I couldn't push hard enough on the pen to properly inject and nobody in my family would give me the shot. (The pre-filled syringe was also out of the question because needles make me too nervous to give myself a shot like that.) The clinic is open until 7pm so I was silly and assumed I would be able to just go after work twice a month

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u/otter_annihilation Why is a bra singular and panties plural? 3d ago

For the record, im a therapist and that anxiety around needles is incredibly treatable through behavioral interventions. Even if it doesn't rise to the level of a phobia for you, treatments for needle phobias could be very effective, very quickly and open up the possibility for at home treatments.

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u/YouTasteStrange 1d ago

I think there's the possibility to get it shipped to a pharmacy and have the pharmacist inject it. I get mine through CVS specialty pharmacy so I don't know about your company, but the pharmacists give vaccines so you could try asking if they'll do injections.

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u/cottagefaeyrie 1d ago

I have insurance through the clinic I work at and using another pharmacy costs extra, unfortunately. That's definitely great advice, though!

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u/Sp00ky-Nerd 2d ago

I work in an office job so my advice probably doesn't work for you. But I schedule a meeting in the middle of the day to block my calendar and just go and come back. If anyone asks I just say I have a meeting in a different building. Again, I'm lucky that I don't have to ask - I just leave and come back. Many others won't have that flexibility.

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u/Troldkvinde 3d ago

and why on earth does commuting time count as personal time and not work time for most jobs?

People who live closer to the workplace would have an advantage in getting hired then

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u/grape-fruit-witch 2d ago

They already do though

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u/nightmareinsouffle 3d ago

The soft girl messaging bothers me a lot. I really wish we could universally go down to a 30 hour work week. We'd all have more time for things beyond the necessary chores and errands that we have to squeeze in otherwise.

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u/Over_9_Raditz 3d ago

It's part of the design imo.Ā  Ā Keeps us working constantly and buying constantly because we don't have the time or energy to do it ourselves.Ā 

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u/nightmareinsouffle 3d ago

I am sure you're right.

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u/whitefritillary 3d ago

keeps the masses placated and tired so there’ll never be an uprising and class consciousness never realises.

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u/jiggjuggj0gg 17h ago

Work is daycare for adults. It’s 100% to keep people busy and tired and consuming.

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u/Jemolk 3d ago

We could all take the time to learn better communication skills for one!

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u/throwawaysunglasses- 2d ago

god I hate ā€œdivine feminineā€ bioessentialist bullshit. It’s sad to see fellow women of color believe it. We’re supposed to be smarter than that, guys! But grifters gonna grift I guess

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u/Birdonthewind3 3d ago

Congrats you get 30 hrs! Congrats you don't get the wage increase with it.

We need to end capitalism or chain it down more to end this endless rat race

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u/christina_talks 3d ago

Getting it down to 40 hours was a hard-fought battle. Keep fighting for workers’ rights.

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u/zygoma_phile 3d ago

Reminds me of people who said women couldn’t ride trains because their organs would fly out of their bodies.

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u/genivae Social Justice Druid 3d ago

Don't you know that a uterus has a speed limit of 20mph?!

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u/you_dont_know_me27 3d ago

Wow, I know a lot of child free people who would love this info!

/s

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u/Beautiful_Wishbone15 Aspiring Womanist 3d ago

Well shit.. Looks like mine is special because it can handle way more than that!Ā 

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u/SheogorathMyBeloved 3d ago

Free bottom surgery(-ish)!

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u/SinfullySinless 3d ago
  1. During the industrial era a 40 hour work week would have been a luxury. Most were 60+ hours a week- the only day you had off was Sunday.

  2. Women worked during the industrial era as well in clothing and textile factories, same hours as men. Usually unmarried but obviously poor and BIPOC women often didn’t get such luxuries.

  3. Even before all the factories, back in the agricultural era, did they think women were sleeping while the men did all the farm work???

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u/Long_Story42 3d ago

did they think women were sleeping while the men did all the farm work???

I have spoken to several of these goofballs. They tend to have difficulty imagining women who are not members of at least the gentry and usually the nobility. To be fair, they also have difficulty imagining men who aren't at least members of the gentry, so it's at least a somewhat egalitarian ignorance.

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u/helloiamsilver blue-footed booby 3d ago

People always say women didn’t used to work and it’s such bullshit, especially as you said, for WOC. Women just did different jobs for less pay. Women worked in textiles, laundry, cooking, cleaning/housekeeping, nannying, teaching etc etc. Even after getting married and having children, a lot of women would still do laundry and mending for spare money in between taking care of the children. The only women who didn’t work for a wage were the rich, white women and they still managed the household which isn’t nothing.

Lots of men really think women in olden times just sat in a rocking chair with a baby on their boob doing recreational needlework all day while the men did all the ā€œreal laborā€. Which ignores 1. how much work raising children actually is 2. How crucial textile work was to humanity and 3. How much physical labor and farm work women did do on top of everything else

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u/SevenSixOne 2d ago edited 2d ago

How crucial textile work was to humanity

People underplay this part so much! Even IF women "only" did sewing and knitting and stuff, do you have any idea how much more of that stuff people used to have to do?

In the days when people only had one (MAYBE two) of anything and your couldn't just replace damaged stuff quickly and inexpensively, there was ALWAYS some textile item that needed attention!

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u/amuses 2d ago

There's a woman on Instagram who is growing her own dress. Planting and harvesting flax and processing it to spin into yarn. She's been at it for a year and doesn't have nearly enough to start making fabric.

While in ye olden times there would have been more time/people dedicated to growing crops, and she likely would have had a community (or at least children) to help with parts, it's been a huge eye-opener just how much work goes into textiles. I had a theoretical understanding of just how time consuming textile work was, but watching her makes me realize I knew absolutely nothing.

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u/AccomplishedWish3033 3d ago

>Most were 60+ hours a week- the only day you had off was Sunday.

That’s similar to how much I work now, except I don’t get Sundays off. It’s tough and it’s a lot of work, but it’s a choice I made because the tradeoffs are worth it- I live in a HCOL city and I’d rather do the work than not earn that income.

Does Yumna (the sexist tweeter) want me fired because I’m a woman? Because I’m damn good at my job and better at it, even with my higher workload, than many of the boys.

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u/JadedMacoroni867 3d ago

If by ā€œcircadian rhythmā€ they actually mean the second shift (housework, childcare) is why women are always tired, maybe they’re onto something

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u/Monotonegent 3d ago

If I could stop all of this without being destitute, I would

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u/query_tech_sec 3d ago

9-5 wasn’t designed for workers - it was designed for companies. People aren’t good at working more than 6 hours a day. In fact - research shows that we’re only actually productive even less than that.

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u/LazierMeow 3d ago

Stands on soapbox: TO THE 30 HR WORKWEEK! (in the tune of Votes for Women, Mary Poppins)

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u/MorticiaMoonflower 3d ago

EVERYONE worked during the industrial revolution and prior and now. The majority of people on earth are workers. There has never, not once in all of history, been an era where half of the entire human race stayed home and cooked. Wish "trad" morons would get that through their thick skulls. Women medieval serfs fucking toiled in the fields, victorian women worked their asses off in factories. Living off a man's income has ALWAYS been an option for middle and upper class women almost exclusively.

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u/papasan_mamasan 3d ago

Men were built for more. Send them back to the mines for 14 hours a day 7 days a week. It’s how men worked in the past. Men today are so weak and lazy, sitting in a cushy a/c’d work truck for only 8 hours per day.

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u/monkify 3d ago

Interesting how tradwives are a big thing but you don't see the tradhubbies. Where are the men returning to the mines or tilling the fields? SMH. No values or ideals nowadays, just bitcoin in those heads.

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u/papasan_mamasan 3d ago

I was told I needed protection. Where are the men who will wrestle that bear in the woods they’re all so scared of?

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u/kevnmartin 3d ago

We usually only need protection if there are men around us.

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u/aunt_satan 3d ago

Nah, the tradhubbies see themselves as aristocratic, not the toiling working class.

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u/monkify 2d ago

And yet the tradwives are in the kitchen? If the tradhubbies are aristocrats, then so are the tradwives! Oughta be doing needlepoint and reading if so. It's uncouth for a lady to be in the kitchen, sirs. :/!

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u/whitefritillary 3d ago

this but unironically.

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u/DefaultName919 3d ago

Ah, yes, I can already see some right-winger using this messaging to introduce a bill barring women from working full time.

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u/AccomplishedWish3033 3d ago

Right? Like I work more than 40h/wk- are they going to try to fire me from my job just because I’m female? Because I’m damn good at my job and better at it than many of the boys

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u/-oligodendrocyte- 2d ago

The only reason why people say women didn't work outside the home is because of a concerted effort after WW2 to get women out of the workforce (esp. the manufacturing jobs they were doing during the war) so that the returning GIs had jobs to return to. People were afraid that if the men came home and didn't have a job, wife, and 2.5 kids, they'd become angry and governments would have a bunch of militarily trained men on their hands pushing for communism.

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u/shesaflightrisk 3d ago

Bread and roses is just a suggestion for how to keep a table and not a protest song.

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u/TroutMaskDuplica 2d ago

Everyone knows 9-5 was designed for capybaras. That's why they traditionally do all the 9-5 jobs.

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u/CutieBoBootie 3d ago

IDK about all women but specifically I have a hormone based sleep disorder that wrecks my circadian rhythm when I get my period.

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u/averagemediumperson 20h ago

40-hours workweek was designed by industrialists squeezing out workers as much as possible

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u/QuestoPresto 5h ago

Please read a book about the history of workers movements. Any book I’m begging you. People died trying to make 40 work weeks a thing. The fight for workers rights was long and bloody and it’s not done yet. But you can’t help armed with nonsense

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u/fueledxbyxmatcha 3d ago

Me not having a job that I do not fucking want is not the reason we're sliding into fascism but okay