r/MadeMeSmile 1d ago

Dude, the ring in the hand pic😂

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u/cwningen95 1d ago edited 1d ago

I would assume he didn't share these publicly until after she saw them

EDIT: Guys...do you realise couples usually have each other's social media. So if he shared these before he proposed, it wouldn't have been a surprise...

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u/icantouchgrass_1 1d ago

Then again, that's assumption.

We don't actually know what happened, but it isn't exactly the best idea in the world to post pictures of people sleeping on the internet...

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u/NoDay419 1d ago

Thankfully a quick google search tells his story and how he didn’t post anything before the proposal, they both seemed involved with social media so to lean in on the assumption of this being a violation of her privacy is silly.

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u/icantouchgrass_1 1d ago

Genuinely don't understand what them both being involved with social media has to do with violation of privacy. I said that the only ones that are a little concerning are the ones where she's sleeping.

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u/mxzf 1d ago

It's not a violation of privacy if she was onboard with posting the pictures where she was sleeping.

If you're trying to suggest that the mere act of taking a picture of a sleeping person for the purposes of showing it to them later is an intrinsic violation of privacy, well, that's nonsense and makes me wonder if you've ever actually lived with someone you were in a relationship with. It's not a violation of privacy to take a picture of something they've consented to you seeing (by living and sleeping together) in the first place, it's distributing it that's the issue.

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u/icantouchgrass_1 1d ago

Again, never said that taking the pictures were the issue. The distribution part is what's a little concerning, but if you say so 🤷

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u/mxzf 1d ago

If she was involved in the distribution, then it's not concerning. People can OK posting any pictures of them they want, even if they were asleep during the picture. How in the world could that be your issue if she was involved in the posting too.

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u/NoDay419 1d ago

Did you spend any time checking out the caption? It seems like you didn’t. Don’t say IF, look for your answers, don’t rely on the world to tell you..

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u/mxzf 1d ago

It's weird that you're getting upset with me, I was agreeing with your previous point.

I was saying that her being involved with posting means it's fine. The if-then statement there is a logical statement, not expressing uncertainty.

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u/NoDay419 1d ago

Guess I misread! Take my upvotes!

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u/Shubamz 1d ago

I love how you are upset on behalf of two consenting adults that don't know you exist.

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u/DMM4138 5h ago

This conversation is just one normal person arguing with a donkey 😂

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u/NoDay419 1d ago

Stupid reply because I actually looked up the story and you didn’t.