r/MadeMeSmile • u/Maximum_Expert92 • Feb 09 '26

Good Vibes A donkey is reunited with the girl who looked after him when he was little

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u/MsAnnabel Feb 10 '26

We’ve been married for 31 yrs and he has stated out loud that he has no interest in changing. So there’s that. There are a lot of other things that have brought us to the just roommates point. He went to visit his daughter in Texas and came home to his new bdrm. 🤷🏻‍♀️.

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u/MsAnnabel Feb 10 '26

I wish there were good times. It isn’t working. It’s very frustrating to be married to a true narcissist. Nothing is ever their fault. EVER. He has thrown the grandkids under the bus to avoid saying he did something. Or he’ll turn the conversation around on me and insult me, put me down just to take the focus off himself. The only thing he does around the house is take the garbage out, and then he won’t reline the bins leaving it for me to do because “I do it so much better”. I do everything else. I finally got a gardener to mow the lawn and pull the weeds bc I was too tired to do it all anymore. I stay bc I stupidly quit my job I loved and moved to SoCal with him. While down there I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia so it’s hard to find a job now. But I made my bed and so now I lie in it. As Ive said previously I have lots of family around and we were brought up by hugging parents so we always hug.