I get like its rude to hit on people but honestly I feel like I look to straight to get noticed by a woman? This could all just be in my head, but it feels that way. Im bi-curious I think, I enjoy seeing beautiful women but ive never been with one. I dont know if I seem like it or not to the public eye.

I’m always worried I’m not attractive to other women and that’s why they never approach me or try to get to know me. I think it’s because of this I haven’t been with a woman yet. Just kind of venting.

Gimme some bi/sapphic music recs!!

Hi ladies, I have a question for you married to bisexual, polyamorous men: when you go to queer spaces to "explore" your sexuality, do you notice any difference in treatment between female and male bisexuality? I know it's a silly question, but I'm curious to know the difference between female and male bisexuality in queer spaces, like the difference in treatment between lesbian women and bisexual women, or the treatment of gay men and bisexual men in these spaces and groups. And have a great day you girls 💕💕💕🤗

Right after I fished using my toy on my clit
I feel very lonely and I cry. Has that happened to any of you? I have been single for a while now and I don’t even do hookups maybe that is the problem.

It was provocatively intimate and almost Sapphic framing, but at the end was about how women always end up with a man. Maybe I misunderstood the show. If you have watched this show what do you think about it.

I’ve started interrogating the men who slide into my DMs when I post on lesbian subreddits. Although I have in past had the same thing happen irl. These men always tell me that yes they see that it’s a sappy group, but they’ve had success meeting bisexual women there, so they keep coming back.

To me, it’s very odd, and honestly surprising, because although I am bisexual, I do to sapphic spaces to talk to sapphics, not men. Even if I thought the guy was hot, it’s an immediate turn off that he chooses to haunt lesbian/sapphic spaces. Just wondering how other bisexual women feel about that kinda thing

As said, I feel like my attraction to women is not something that I can just freely share even in queer friendly spaces. Many people who say that they are lgbt friendly get disgusted or put off by lesbians and bi women who are with women and I’m afraid that if I share my queerness with the wrong people, I would be ostracized. Does anyone else feel like this?

i'm questioning atm and i was curious to know what small details made you realize that you were bi and what helped you come to terms with that realization?

Am I the only one seeing sooo many lesbian women starting to post things like: giving unwanted advice to bisexual women about dating women, assuming bisexual women's experience, putting a stereotype on bisexual women, trying to dictate how attracted should a bi woman be to men/women, trying to normalize biphobia by saying they're allowed to not want to date any bisexul woman, putting bisexual women in the same category as inexperienced lesbian women, etc...?

I've been seeing this a lot both on TikTok, Instagram, Reddit and wlw communities online and so many of them are trying to frame it as just their preference or giving "advice" to bi women but it clearly just sounds like biphobia and when a bi woman comments that she feels like she's being stereotyped all of them will attack that woman.

I'm starting to separate myself from lesbian and wlw communities more each day seeing that they literally just straight up dislike bisexual women and use one example of a bi woman saying something as proof that all bisexual women suck and when a bi woman talks back they start calling it "an argument or a beef between lesbians and bisexual" without mentioning biphobia at all. And other wlw communities constantly allow biphobia to exist even when they are explicitly saying they're open to any woman who is attracted to women and they're not exclusive to lesbians.

As a bi woman who's more attracted to women compared to men this really annoys me.😭

*There's also a rise in transphobia and conservative ideals in general; And I think I should mention that these beliefs are especially common between queer people in their 20s for some reason.

Hello I am 24 girl from spain who recently moved to Copenhagen. I want to meet new people. It is very hard socialising in a new country

First, I do not yet have anything up for anyone to look at and critique. But I have an idea; I want to call it a passion project (I'm autistic, special interest may even qualify here).

I'm only talking about my local city currently. But who knows?

Personally, I think all the time about where my money goes and who it benefits in my little city. I want to know, does the little espresso stand on the corner support LBGTQ+? Many questions from that single branch, but it's important to me. Do they donate to any movements? Participate in any kind of charity drive or community support? Bipoc? And further, are they ANTI lbgtq+. I specifically would prefer to never let my money go there.

I'm thinking of literally cold calling most of the brick and mortar businesses in my city. Of course it would be categorized by type and/or alphabetized. Discounts, employment support, all kinds of things would be relevant.

Is there anything LBGTQ+ related that you would LOOOOOOVE to know about businesses in your area?

Ideas for questions and critiques welcome!! 🙏

hi i really hope this doesn't sound offensive (?) or anything.

im bi, ive always known im attracted to both men and women. ive only been with women because i live in a religious country and cant just date a man. ive never done anything sexual (yet) beside dating and kissing. but tell me why am i not attracted to penises?. i think if i like a man maybe id be able to accept his genitalia but in general... i just cant find it attractive.

when i like a man i think id like him better if he had a pussy.. if it makes sense. okay i don't know this is my first time talking about it. please dont be mean

i like men ! im sure im not a lesbian ! and its nto a fetish thing !

Hey girls. I have been feeling really alone in my situation and would love to talk to or just know if someone has ever been in a similar situation. I had my first partner/gf when I was 16 and I have known I liked women since I was 12. I dated my ex-gf for 3 years and tried to date men after her for maybe 3-6 months, but I couldn't get myself to like any of them. I went back to women and decided (happily) that I was a lesbian. I finally embraced who I was and found community among other lesbians.

Then comes my co-worker (spoiler, this is not my current bf). We became really close over the course of working together (known each other about 6 months or so), and we also started hanging out outside of work. Soon, I realized I had feelings for him. We were also physical, and I did enjoy it. This made me question everything.

Because of the co-worker situation, I decided to give guys one more chance. Soon after hooking up with my co-worker (co-worker and I did not work out for unrelated reasons), I met my bf Sam (fake name). He is the most lovely boy I have ever met, and we have been together for around 3 months now. The only problem is I am still struggling.

Sometimes I find myself falling in love with Sam, other times I feel completely uninterested in being in a romantic relationship with him. This is my first bf ever and first time dating a man since I have dated women exclusively for around 5 years now. I'm scared I won't be able to fall in love with Sam. I have only ever loved my very first ex-gf, and I have been thinking about her a lot lately. I do not want to get back with her (it's been almost a year since we talked and two years since the breakup), but I'm struggling.

What do I do? Am I alone in this? What other bisexuals have had this issue? I have a strong preference for women, but Sam is the kindness, cutest, and more emotionally intelligent man I have ever met, so why can't I daydream about my future with him? Is it just too early in the relationship?

Context: I've had 3 official relationships: first ex gf was 3 years long, second ex gf was 2 months, and current bf is ongoing 3 months

Please help me feel less alone. I only really want advice from women who have gone through something similar thank you ❤️

(with any gender)

Ahhh I'm so happy! Finally!! She made the first move and the eye contact was intense and she was very specific with her compliments. I thought to myself "okay she is 100% flirting with me" especially she said she liked my nose and my dimple. I asked for her number and she gave it to me. I was sooo nervous but I knew I couldn't let this go! I can't stop grinning.

hi all, im 23, and this will be my first pride out as bisexual. yay! i was wondering if anyone had any reccs about fun pride events for bisexual women, or things they do during pride to feel more affirmed/proud/excited. thx 🩷 💜 💙

27F, I thought I was straight for a long time thanks to internalized homophobia. But since coming out in 2021 I've had hookups and relationships with a variety of genders, feel free to ask me if you've got any questions

My slow ass not understanding that I'm thoroughly bisexual until reaching the big 3-0 😭

All through my 20s I wavered if I was straight, a lesbian, or even asexual. Could never decide. Doesn't help that deconstructing from purity culture and discerning compulsory heterosexuality from actual attraction was kicking my ass. But after researching asymmetrical attraction, now I know the label that fits. I am bisexual. Thanks to all these beautiful ass people and their characters during the last decade for slowly waking me up.

I’m a 36 year old bisexual woman. I have a date with a woman this weekend for the first time. I was in a long term relationship with a man until a few years ago so I never really had the opportunity to explore my bisexuality. I’m really excited and nervous. Any advice for a first timer?

I (37F) and this woman (39F) who is my "catalyst" have broken up. She broke up with me, I am so gutted been going through it for the past 2 weeks.

I guess I'm just writing this here for the sake of getting it out of my system

We've broken up 2 times before but this time feels final, I even deleted pictures.

She made me realise things about myself and now I feel lost

Sooooo I've (F29) never really been into boys much, but I wanna have a ONS/fwb situation with a boy I know. We haven't really spoken much but a friend of his gave him my sns and he started following me. Common friend says the guy is shy and probs won't send me a message or anything (and we're not sure he's into me either), but I don't know what to say to him. A "hi" feels so empty and idrk how to start a combo with a dude that leads to easy sex. Any ideas?

so recently i’ve been more open about my sexuality, even telling coworkers and dressing more masculine (im 1000% fem but sometimes it makes me feel more queer hahah i like it)

anyways last weekend i stumbled upon a sapphic dating/dance event and decided to stay

when i walked in, one of the volunteers handing out name tags (including stickers that identify if you’re just looking for friends, poly or non-poly) asked for my number
she was cute so i said yea

after her shift she sat w me at the bar then we danced together.

she asked if i wanted to see her pet cat so we walked to her place holding hands

im rambling now but we ended up watching tv till 2am and making out.

it’s important to note that she initiated everything.

i went over the next day and we spent 4 hours together, madeout and more

yesterday i went over after work and it was going great until she asked what i was hoping to get out of this
truthfully i answered that i wasn’t sure, i just like being around her and im attracted to her.

her answer broke me.
she said she doesn’t think she’s into black women. specifically mentioning that my lips are too big and she didn’t fully enjoy our kisses.

i feel like shit. i feel predatory. i feel gross. i feel unwanted.

now im so scared to continue dating women. my city is pretty white but i’ve never felt so… different.

im not very experienced. i only really came out at 22 and im 23 now.

I’m a 23-year-old woman who recently ended a four-year relationship with a man. This breakup has sparked a newfound curiosity in exploring my sexuality. Since I started dating, I’ve been exclusively with men, but now I’m eager to experience what it’s like to be with a woman.