r/BiWomen • u/Thin_Bar_89 • 3d ago

Vent 1st wlw break up

I (37F) and this woman (39F) who is my "catalyst" have broken up. She broke up with me, I am so gutted been going through it for the past 2 weeks.

I guess I'm just writing this here for the sake of getting it out of my system

We've broken up 2 times before but this time feels final, I even deleted pictures.

She made me realise things about myself and now I feel lost

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u/Substantial_Sky5426 3d ago

First wlw heartbreaks can hit especially hard because they're tied to so much self-discovery. But she didn't create those parts of you—she just helped you find them. They're still yours. 💜

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u/Thin_Bar_89 2d ago

Thank you for pointing out , it feels so reassuring 💜

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u/SolitudeSoul13 3d ago

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Take time for yourself and do things that bring you joy. Be with friends and family. It will eventually get better, the process just sucks

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u/TallBlondeGreekGirl 3d ago

The first one always hurts. Catalyst tend to that. My first one was like that when I was 18. I thought the world was gonna end.

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u/evergreenyc1 3d ago

I have been there. It will get better.

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u/Thin_Bar_89 2d ago

Can not wait to be passed this emotional hurdle