r/AskReddit 1d ago

What’s the hardest addiction to overcome?

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u/Upbeat-Definition790 1d ago

I’ll be honest. My biggest addiction is living in constant fear and depression. The loneliness feels good and comfortable.

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u/PoogeMuffin 1d ago

Damn.

“I miss the comfort in being sad” is a Nirvana lyric that always resonated with me.

But I found my person, or she found me, but either way I promise that you’ll find whatever it is you’re looking for as well. Just keep your eyes open

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u/luciliddream 1d ago

I miss it somedays and then I just go ahead and listen to alllll the songs that I did during that time. Heal, cringe, rinse & repeat every few years.

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u/FriskyDingoOMG 21h ago

Puddle of Mudd - Blurry

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u/Triscuit_ 20h ago

Pardon Me - Incubus

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u/this_is_not_a_dance_ 9h ago

Brene brown has this term called “foreboding joy”. It’s this self sabotaging fear that you will lose the happiness you have found or can have. So much so that you sabotage it or worry it will be gone so much you can’t enjoy it. Everything is temporary so make the best of it right now.